People in the urban areas need to learn cooperation. It's called team work by some, but I like to use the word cooperation because no matter if it's in the dating arena or life we all require cooperation. Urban folks have big egos and refuse to drop their pride for any cooperation. You see Mexicans don't have this say issue. They can live together on a home and move out one by one because of business they built while living together in that one family home. This takes extreme cooperation.
The cooperate I am speaking of isn't that extreme though the former works out effortlessly. I am talking cooperation like sending a simple E-mail to get your track featured on one of my videos. Maybe, we require cooperation to elect a new official or to start a business. Simple cooperation black folks need, but don't use.